Interview and Book review- Towards Winning- Dr. Karunakar B. : by Kashish Saini & Shreya G.

It was on one lazy Sunday afternoon, I have decided to hit the bookstore and get myself a good book. As I was strolling down the management section I came across this book “Towards  Winning”. As a first-year Student pursuing MBA this book seemed to be like any other management book which come up with the same old techniques which are supposed to bring in a great transformational change. After knowing more about the author Dr.Karunakar and skimming through reviews & preface, I have decided to get this book.

I was Completely taken aback and my first impression towards this book changed as I kept turning each page. Dr.Karunakar wonderfully takes us through a step by step journey of becoming not only a great leader but also a successful person, through his protagonist Dev. The author portrays Dev as an ambitious person who never gives up on his dreams and who works towards them with a zealot. Dev starts his life as an engineer and ends up being Dean of premium B-School through needles and thorns.

The most intriguing part of the book is that it is not a typical management self-help book but it is a lot more than that. He takes you through a journey of 6 steps to transform one’s life with graphs, real-life examples, day-to-day incidents, learning’s and action plans. It is a perfect 160 pages work-book to your managerial dream. The book helps you to analyze yourself and you end up finding more about you. Dr.Karunakar beautifully brings out his concepts by talking about great personnel such as Mahatma Gandhi, Sachin Tendulkar, Amitabh Bachan and also by giving examples through award-winning movies like Lagaan and ChakDe India.

At the end of the book, Dr.Karunakar successfully conveniences us that being an Inner and Outer winner, with problem-solving skills and by Re-Engineering yourself constantly, we will find ourselves at the other end of our dream tunnel.

Interview Link

What Acts of upholding freedom can counter the shrinking space for dissent & tolerance in society?

अब वही हर्फ़-ए-जुनूँ सब की ज़बाँ ठहरी है

जो भी चल निकली है वो बात कहाँ ठहरी है

This is Faiz Ahmad Faiz giving us the exact idea of how freedom works. I’ll come to this later.

What Acts of upholding freedom can counter the shrinking space for dissent & tolerance in society?

The question that we wish to find an answer to would not have been significant if ours were an ideal country. The answer is obvious: any act that is committed with honesty and is in the ambit of basic humanity is an exercise of freedom and hence an act of upholding freedom.

Then why waste our time thinking about this fundamental question when we can simply share memes on Facebook, feel bad about Syrians, curse Pakistanis, feel proud about UNESCO declaring India’s national anthem as the best national anthem, binge-watch episodes of friends on weekends and go back to sleep?

Well, we are bothered because ours is not an ideal country. Of all the countries in the world, India can never become an ideal country because of its very nature. Because of a plethora of definitions of an ideal country available here.

I am not denigrating India. I would never do that. Not because I am a patriotic bharatvaasi but because I neither have resources nor patience to defend myself against a sedition charge in court.

So, let us say ‘hypothetically’ that ours is not an ideal country and try to deconstruct the question.

First, what do we mean by act of upholding freedom? Like darkness can only be defined by the absence of light, freedom can only be defined by the degree of un-freedoms (a term used by Amartya Sen in his book Development as Freedom). Only its absence can be felt, not its presence because the realization that you’re free begets the possibilities of certain un-freedoms you might be subjected to.

For example, a student who has left his hometown for the first time realizes that he can do whatever he wants without the fear of his parents. This is his first degree of freedom. But this realization comes with the baggage of morals that chain him from doing something that is considered ‘bad’ in the society.

So, is it even possible to be absolutely free? Not at all. We would not have been social animals if we were absolutely free.

We carry with us the responsibilities of our society that behoves us to follow a certain set of rules. For eg: don’t break the traffic signal, don’t litter, don’t try to run your car over people sleeping on footpath etc. If we take humanitarian obligations out of the equation, all these rules are nothing but chains of ‘unfreedom’.

So, if it is not possible to be absolutely free, why do we bother even talking about freedom? Because we choose not to break any traffic rules, we choose not to litter and most of us choose not to run our cars over people sleeping on footpaths.

You might say that this is because law prohibits these actions but aren’t we the ones who choose to follow the law of this country? What if we don’t follow the law of this country? Aren’t we the ones who directly/indirectly elected our leaders to frame the law for us? Aren’t we the ones who chose to follow the constitution of this country? The word choose is important here because it adds one extra degree of freedom to our thousands of unfreedoms. That extra degree of freedom is what is worth defending and fighting for.

Now let’s come to the second question. Is the space for dissent and tolerance in our society shrinking?

Unfortunately, yes. If not directly then indirectly. Fali Nariman in his speech once said that it is not the freedom of speech that matters, it is the freedom after speech that we should be concerned about. We have Gurmehar Kaur amongst us and we all know what happened when she tried to express her opinion on social media and she was talking about peace for God’s sake.

A simple act of expressing your honest opinion is seen as an act of hostile political motives. Every comment you make will be seen in terms of black and white. But the space for debate and discussion lies in the grey area and we all, who want to uphold freedom, should understand it and avoid falling for any trap of extreme opinions.

To avoid that trap, I have a set of commandments for you. I know this is ironical. On one hand, I am asking you to avoid extremism and on the other hand I am trying to profess in the worst possible manner i.e. commandments but bear with me.

First and the most important one is: Make good lawyer friends. Section 124A of the penal code is a reality in 21st century India.

Second, question everything. Everything! Even the act of questioning everything.

But question to seek answers. This should be clear. It is very easy to fall for ‘whataboutism’. What about 1984, what about 2002, what about this, what about that etc. This line of questioning is dangerous as it sucks the humanity out of the argument. And who wants to be a twitter troll anyway!

Please don’t misunderstand me. I am not asking you to be cynical. Seeking answers and questioning for the sake of questioning are two completely different things and we should understand this difference.

Third, if you disagree with someone, make sure that he/she knows that you disagree with him/her.

 Start with your family. A society can only be called free if its people are capable of handling disagreements and this cannot be achieved in a single day. It will take time. It’ll take practice. It’s disheartening for people to know that their arguments are worthless and this is what drives their violent instincts in most of the cases. This is true only for people having a limited capacity to think. But this should not hold you back.

Tell them that their argument is worth a heap of dump but also don’t forget to tell them the importance of dump. Dump exists because we exist.

But make sure that you do not commit any violence in this process. There’s no need to slap your friend just because he happens to be a BJP supporter. These days it’s not wise to slap a BJP supporter anyway!

This brings me to my next commandment: Listen.

Keep your eyes and ears open. Listen to the arguments of even those who are against freedom of expression and you’ll be surprised to know that there are many. If you’re professing freedom, by no means should you not allow the opposite party to express their opinion.

Counter them with fierce arguments but never ask them to shut up. You have no right to.

Fourth, and the most difficult commandment to follow: try not to be afraid of anything

I’ll go back to Faiz Ahmad Faiz now:

अब वही हर्फ़-ए-जुनूँ सब की ज़बाँ ठहरी है

जो भी चल निकली है वो बात कहाँ ठहरी है

It is impossible to supress anyone’s desire to express himself/ herself. The only instrument that can make this possible is fear. Fear is something that is not in our control and yet drives us to do most of the things we do. We all are afraid of something. Ghosts, God, cockroaches etc.

We should try not to be afraid of at least expressing our opinions. Even if you make the perpetrators of violence realise that you’re not afraid of speaking up, you take away the only instrument they have to suppress your freedom.

This is where the role of government comes into play. Do you feel secure enough to express your opinions? If you do, speak up. If you don’t, you have all the more reason to speak up.

Jim Morrison once famously said:

“Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.”

I know this is easier said than done. Not everyone wants to be a freedom activist. People want to lead their normal life. They want to go to work, come back and sleep to wake up again to go to work without exploring the meaning of freedom. How to make them explore the meaning of freedom?

This brings me to my final commandment: passionately follow any form of art that is accessible to you.

Be it cinema, poetry, literature, music, painting…anything.

This will allow you to explore what is beyond normal. Something that is not a part of your day to day life. It is only when you are exposed to new ideas that you get to know what freedom is by peeling off the quotidian unfreedoms you never realised you were subjected to.

Artists show you the limits of freedom by exercising it fiercely. When we see the likes of Salman Rushdie, Faiz Ahmad Faiz, Toni Morrison, Bob Marley, Tasleema Nasreen and numerous others, we realise that life can be something beyond ordinary and it is possible that their examples make you explore your extent of freedom.

Virginia wolf once said:

“Lock up your libraries if you like; but there is no gate, no lock, no bolt that you can set upon the freedom of my mind.”

and your mind can only be free when you eliminate fear from it and that I believe is the only way in which you can counter the shrinking space for dissent and tolerance in our society.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Friendship Bands : by Vybhav Shetty

Once again this day comes to pass
When my hands are adorned with colorful bands
their significance majestic and their show grand
so look with contempt, wonder and awe
as I show you my bands, my friendship bands.

Bonds of every color and size I do possess
some closer to my heart and some further than the rest
some have remained firmly over the years and
some have fallen down leaving behind tears.
so look closely as each of it tells it’s story
these bands, these friendship bands.

I have bands that have changed colors
sometimes for better and sometimes for worse
some are there, on which are written obnoxious names
these are the one’s that love me just the same
so watch as I flaunt this myriad of strings,
these bands, these friendship bands.

They are knotted to last a lifetime
but not all do stand the test of time
sometimes I was to blame, while for others
the situation couldn’t be tamed
so watch my celebration and repentance with
these bands, these friendship bands

I have one that stays foremost
supremacy over others, is of which it boasts
the best and worst all it has seen
with the tightest of bonds it reigns
so watch it hurl and furl about
this band, this friendship band.

The meek, the rude.the gentle, the crude
I walk with an arsenal of all
together our paths we shall chalk
and to the end of it we shall walk
so watch me as my promises lay broken and fulfilled
these bonds, these friendship bonds.

 

 

 

 

 

Parivar :by Ruchi Gupta

parivar… shabd chhota par mayene bade
jaise bina samjhaye ek dusre k vichhar samjhle
sukh dukh mei ek dusre k saath khade rahe
kuch bhul chuk hojaye to fatafat maaf karde
parivaar.. shabd chhota par mayene bade

Thode din ki duri se yaad apne aap aajaye
par saath rahe to jhagda bhi roz uth aaye
inn unbandh se bhi pyaar kam na ho paye
parivar..shabd chhota par maayne bade
ek ki bhi zindagi kharab na hone de
khud bure dikhe par prayaas na chhode
daant fatkaar kr sahi raah par le aaye
Parivaar shabd chhota par maayne bade

par aaj ki tarrekh mei sab badalte h jaa rahe
ek dusre ka drishtikon samajhna hi nahi chahate
iske chalte jhagade badhne hai lage
parivaar shabd chhota or maayne badal gaye
sbka ahankar aa gya h itna aade
ki dur ho rhe h log bina vajah ke
chahiye iska hal.. halaat bigadne se pehle
parivaar shabd chhota or maayne badal gaye
ek dusre par chillane se pehle do baar vichaar kare
apne aap k baare mei soche par pehle dusro ka dhyaan kare
banaye or badhaye pyaar samaan aapas mei
taki sab saath mil kr zindagi khushi se jiye
parivaar shabd chhota par tb maayne na badlenge.

Manali – Leh mountain bicycling : by Rohit

Manali to Leh cycling expedition is a scenic ride traversing through some of the highest passes in the world making it one of the most challenging rides to beat. Cutting across beautiful trails with the Himalayas serving as the perfect backdrop, one can cross Tanglang La, the world’s second highest Motorable pass standing at 5280 m before entering Manali. The route from Manali to Leh is straightforward with the roads either being completely dirt or tarmac.

In the Manali, Leh cycling tour explore rougher dirt tracks while making some tough climbs along with gut-wrenching descents. Every day the distance covered ranges from 40 to 80 km traversing altitudes over 4000 m. Not only will this invigorating route comprise cycling from Leh in the Indus Valley to the alpine Kullu Valley covering a total of 475 km, but it also cuts across three mountain ranges of Zanskar, main Himalayas and Pir Panjal Range. Altogether one exceeds 29000 feet in altitude crossing passes like Rohtang La, Tanglang La and Baralacha La (4890m).

1) A durable mountain bike

2) Full length hand gloves

3) Durable sport shoes

4) Wardrobe essentials: Fleece and Woolen clothes, Water and Windproof jacket, Water and Windproof trousers, Warm jacket, Warm thermals, Warm Gloves or Mittens and Woolen socks, Raincoat or Poncho

5) Small light weight bottle

6) Bicycle Helmet

7) Painkillers, dim-ox, Anti-inflammatory pills, Antiseptic (Iodine or Beta-dine drops), Bandages, plasters, medical tape, a course of antibiotics (check with doctor for advice) and Personal Medical Kit

8) Bicycle spares such as tubes

9) Glucose and electrolytes

10) Mineral water, chocolates, dry fruits

Other Inclusions:

1) Support vehicle

2) A well-marked route

3) Mechanic support